October Books

 It Girl by Allison Pataki -- This book is based on the story of Evelyn Nesbit though the author decided to change the names of her main characters since she deviated quite a bit on some key details in order to give Evelyn a more powerful story. One where SHE (Evleyn) controlled her destiny instead of the usual: being forced to do things by rich, powerful people.  Still, much of the book followed the real Evelyn's life (the author gives a lot of fact v. fiction info in the Author's Note at the end of the book.)  Such an interesting woman! 

You Know Why by J.T. Ellison -- Brooklyn is shocked when her husband, Trey, surprises her with a trip to Italy...the catch? They have to leave the next day. Brooklyn hurries to pack for herself and the kids (Four and Neve), and they head to the airport the next day. When their flight is bumped, Trey is adamant that he doesn't want to fly through Atlanta. Then just before the flight is to leave, Trey is nowhere to be found. Why did this wonderful father and husband abandon his children at the airport? 

Promise Me Never by Liv Constantine -- Bennett is promoting his new book when he meets Savannah, the assistant of his publisher. Savannah is eager to impress Bennett; she has often admired him and longs to be part of his world. After a whirlwind romance, the two marry and Savannah is intrigued with learning more about Bennett's wife who died nearly a year ago. 

Salomé by Leslie Baird -- A bit of reimagining Salome of biblical fame (infamy) in a modern French context as told through the eyes of an American, Courtney, who is traveling and meets Salomé on the airplane. The two become friends, and this book also deals with odd dreams and somewhat unethical quests for immortality. 

Getting Away With Murder by Shari Lapena -- Ted and Jill come into some financial trouble because Ted just isn't a good investor, and they look for a way to save their home (which Jill loves more than she loved Ted, quite frankly.)  When they find the perfect way to murder Ted's obnoxious brother - and inherit his millions - they think they are home free. 

Hot Girl Murder Club Ashley Winstead -- This book has the perspectives of several folks: the detective, the assistant, folks here, folks ten years ago. Scout is a singer and Detective Ellis believes she and her friends are punishing men and women who got away with abusing people. Meanwhile Scout wants to know what happened to her little sister Georgia at a party in Hollywood when she was 18. 

This Changes Everything by Lisa Scottoline -- Julia is living her best life in Italy and on a whim, she called her best friend Courtney back home in Pennsylvania. Courtney has taken the week off to visit her grandmother, and Julia is on the phone with Courtney when she walks inside and discovers her loved one has just been killed. Julia travels home to be with Courtney where they are determined to bring the killer to justice. 

That Night by Gillian McAllister -- Joe, Cathy, and Frannie are siblings who work together, live next door to one another even as adults, and vacation together. When Frannie calls Cathy frantically about hitting a guy while driving late at night, Cathy arrives at the scene, looking to fix things for her younger sibling. The siblings do something they come to regret and this impacts their lives back in England. 

The Final Target by Nora Roberts -- DNF ; I read over half of this book, and still had almost 200 pages to go. It wasn't terrible, but wasn't exciting enough for me to keep going. 

Big LIttle Truths by Liane Moriarty -- This author's first sequel. I would have enjoyed it a bit better if I'd remembered more details from the first book, however, I got the gist as I read and enjoyed this. This book follows most of the same characters we met in the first book, only now ten years have passed so instead of moms meeting and discussing kindergarten-related things, the kids are in high school. Fun times. 

Whistler by Ann Patchett -- When her husband Jonathan notices an elderly man following them around the Met, Daphne is amused at how she always seems to attract older men. But when Jonathan decides to speak with the man, they are stunned to realize this was Eddie, a man who was Daphne's stepfather when she went through a meaningful time in her young life. She was only 9 when her mother divorced Eddie after a car accident, and Daphne now realizes she can get their stories straight. Pretty good story. 

The House of Boleyn by Tracy Borman -- I like that this book focuses on many folks within the household of Anne Boleyn. I've read a few books about her, and it was nice seeing some of the background of her story: a bit more about her mom, dad, grandmother, siblings, even servants. While extensive information about each of them was not provided, I felt I got a sense of how things could have been all those years ago. 

This American Woman by Zarna Garg -- The cover reads "a one-in-a-billion memoir" because this author came to the US from...India!  What a woman. I enjoyed reading about her early life and what brought her to the United States. She first lived in Ohio where her sister had come several years ago. But why did she flee India? I love her work ethic, her enthusiasm, and reading her story! 

A Death Doula's Guide to a Meaningful End by Jane K. Callahan -- Earlier this year I was the one who contacted a local hospice and got that process started for my mother in law. Though one can be put into hospice care six months prior to what they think will be the end for you, my MIL was still undergoing treatment at UNC, and didn't get super-bad until the pain hit suddenly in mid-January.  

I was present when the hospice intake worker came, as well as for several of the nurse's visits, and I remember being fascinated by what I learned about our bodies - mostly our brains' struggles to regulate things (temperature, anxiety, etc.) the closer we get to death.   I saw this book at the local library recently, and "enjoyed" learning about how this author came to work in hospices and as a death doula. She shares experiences with her own parents as well as anecdotes from patients and their families that she has helped.  She admits to having anxiety issues much of which stem from a troubled childhood with an abusive alcoholic mother. She talks about challenges related to caring for those with terminal illnesses - how little in-person hospice care provides and the need for caregivers which is challenging to many. She also discusses things like making a "death nest" and some legacy projects one can do. 

Beach Thriller by Jamie Day -- Holly returns to the summer cabin where her family went during her childhood. There she meets a runaway teenager Jade who wants to help Holly finish her book - and solve a mystery concerning the truth about what happened to Holly's older sister Anna years ago.  

North of Ordinary by Sue Aikens -- I wasn't familiar with this woman despite her being on a reality TV show concerning her life in Alaska, but her story is a good one, and I enjoyed this book.  The cover reads: "How one woman left it all behind for wilderness and wonder in Alaska's frozen frontier."  I spent quite a while telling Andrew about some of her exciting stories. 

September Books

 The Divorce by Freida McFadden -- Naomi is so unhappy with her husband! First he changes the locks on the house and tricks her into moving out. The nerve!  Now he's asking for a divorce and Naomi finds out he's got a new woman, Veronica. She wants to get back with her husband and be part of her son's life. What can she do to bring her family together again? 

The Unknown by Riley Sager -- Despite having only one commercial to her credit, Marin is chosen for a lead role in a new film. To rehearse for the movie, she and her fellow actors are taken to a small island two miles from mainland Vermont where strange and spooky things happen. 

The Anniversary by Alex Finlay -- The anniversary refers to each year on May 1 - and this book follows several years only on that date. There is a person who often kills on this date. This book follows Quinn and Jules who knew each other from high school study hall. Quinn goes into the Army after a brief stint in juvie. Later he becomes a private investigator because his leg is such that he can't go into law enforcement. Jules was doubly impacted by the May 1st killer, and she seeks to figure out who is terrorizing young women in the community.  

Her Father's Secret by Sara Blaedel -- I might have enjoyed this better if I had realized it was the second book in a series. I typically don't care to come into a series without knowing the background of people, but I didn't realize this until I had read quite a bit of Ilka's story. She's Danish and in Racine, Wisconsin, where her father ran a funeral home. Here in the US, he had married again and had two daughters. Ilka wonders why he left her and her mom - and was never in touch. 

Good Company by Kate Christensen -- Julia is back where she went to college, this time as a mid-fifties novelist who recently published her memoir. She's on a panel and meets people she knew from the past. This book is a remembrance of times she went through, and I can admit again that I'm so thankful I didn't go through some of those rites of passage many believe college students should enjoy.  

The Housewife by Natalie Barelli -- A quick read - Jodie is married to Dr. Roy Davies, mostly to figure out what happened to his first wife, Deb, who happens to be Jodie's sister. Jodie looks for clues, makes a friend or two, and finds she's more than just a housewife! 

Someone Else's Husband by Kimberly McCreight -- One of the best parts of this book is the flashbacks to a trip a couple of the main characters took when they met on a 10-day hike of Mount Kilimanjaro.  Frankie was the only woman on that excursion that included a group of men who were friends. A few months later, she ends up dead and the police arrest Richard for her murder. Meanwhile Gretchen, Richard's wife, is trying to clear her husband's name and find out what happened now - and on that trip. 

Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke -- Natalie is an influencer living on an Idaho ranch, trying to maintain a certain image, checking her Instagram followers and comments, yet somehow she ends up going back in time to when things were really tough.  Is this a joke? What happened to her life? her modern conveniences? her children?

Time to Burn by Ellery Lloyd -- Phoebe  makes documentaries and in this book, she is behind the scenes with Inigo Frank, a man who offers trips back in time - only about 50 years back so as to not impact history quite as much - to those who can afford these extremely-expensive trips. She is approached by Lucian, a man who used to work for Inigo, a man who is now concerned about the impacts of time travel and explains to Phoebe about "glitches."   Pretty good story! 

Edmonia by Brianne Baker -- This is "a novel of a boundary-breaking American sculptress."  Although the author admits she had to fictionalize much of this book because details are scarce about many things relating to Mary Edmonia Lewis, it's still a good story

Jesus and John Wayne  by Kristin Kobes DuMez  -- "how white evangelicals corrupted a faith and fractured a nation;" A friend mentioned reading this book and I got it from the library and read it between other books.  Nothing overly surprising, but sad just the same. 

Nine Lives by Catherine Steadman -- Frankie and her cat Blue are the newest neighbors in a lovely London neighborhood. Blue returns one evening from his wanderings and Frankie is stunned to find a message scratched into his collar!  Frankie decides to employ the cat collar camera to see if Blue will return to the same person so she can help. 

He Should Have Told the Bees by Amanda Cox -- Beck is running her dad's farm which includes bees. She meets Fern, the girl staying with a relative at a nearby farm and Callie, the lady who is named in her dad's trust. Why did her dad name this stranger as part owner of his property? Read and find out.

Buyer Beware by Catherine Ryan Howard -- Ellie moves into her new house only to have creepy things happen. We learn some backstory about Erin meeting Jason and their life together before Jason meets Hannah. 

The Secrets We Hide by Karin Slaughter -- This is a North Falls mystery fearting Sheriff Emmy who is on the way from burying her mom when she hears gunshots in the neighborhood. She and her sister Jude, who has been mostly estranged from the family for decades, work together to figure out who killed a retired police officer who seemed to be looking to escape an abusive marriage. 

The Break-Up Retreat by Camilla Sten -- Isobel travels to Himlafall Clinic where it's promised that Dr. Martina's techniques will help you in relationships. Isobel is a journalist wishing to discover the dirt, especially after she learned that a former client had disappeared. 

I also reread Aunt Viola's book (mentioned last month) and this time read it more intentionally and discussed it with Andrew's cousins, Jami and Dana. We had a sort of book club by text messages which was fun! 

Itchy Boots Season 8: Mongolia and China with Bing again

Noraly is on a short break right now so I thought I'd go ahead and update this blog on her travels. I'm not really sure why I do this, but I started so I'll continue.  

August 2, 5, 9, 13, 16, 19, 24, 27, and 31

We watched episodes 147-155 which took place in Mongolia and China 

After having two flat tires within 13 kilometers, Noraly entered another area in China, and had Bing meet her at the border. In this area, she doesn't need him to ride right with her so they aren't always together. Also, Bing's eye is giving him trouble so someone from his work team came to help out. I never caught the spelling of her name and she didn't speak much English, but she seemed to enjoy riding with Bing and Noraly.  At one point they tried a side-by-side way of travel, but it was too difficult so they gave that up pretty quickly. 

Noraly had to throw away the map she'd been using since it had Taiwan marked on it. In China, she didn't want to take the chance of someone seeing that as it's frowned upon. 

She went to a less touristy area of the Great Wall which was lovely to see. 

Noraly traveled through some - what she called, diarrhea mud, as well as a road that was flooding. We saw lots of beautiful wildflowers which are always a favorite for me!

September 3, 6, 10, 13, 17, 20, and 23

We watched episodes 156-162 which took place in China 

In the city of Harbin, she went to a place that talked about the Japanese mistreatment of the Chinese. She said she usually likes to keep things light in her videos, but it would be like going to Auschwitz and not mentioning the terrible things done there during World War II. She rode a good while along the border with North Korea. Such a pretty area of both countries.  A toll guy was practicing his English, and police followed her for quite a long time.  Noraly had to get a few things fixed on Frankie which she says are unplanned, of course, but a good way to see little villages and interact with people you wouldn't otherwise meet.  She made sure we saw her and Bing as they parted ways. She didn't the last time they were together, and she said she had so many comments about that, that she knew she wouldn't make that mistake again.  She and Bing crossed some water on a ferry and then Bing left. Noraly is headed to South Korea, and will come back with new videos in a couple of weeks  after she and Frankie have a head start.

August Books

 Caller Unknown by Gillian McAllister -- Simone is on the way to reunite with her daughter who traveled from England to Texas for camp. The two have plans to do some tent camping, but first they have one night in a rental. When Simone wakes up the next morning, she cannot find Lucy, but then a phone rings and she finds out her daughter has been taken! 

A Pair of Aces by Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray -- These authors explore a possible relationship between New York's assistant district attorney Eunice Hunton Carter, and the infamous madam, Polly Adler. Was Polly helpful in the DA's case against Lucky Luciano, the Mob boss? I would likely never read books about these two, but I have often enjoyed these authors so I read this one. Pretty interesting story. 

My Days of Work and Play: Beginning in Alamance County and Ending in Guilford County, North Carolina by Viola Andrew Braxton -- When she was 90 years old, Andrew's great-aunt wrote some of her memories and compiled those along with some of her favorite poems, some talks she gave to garden clubs, and a few pages of family trees. All this was put into this book which is just under 100 pages.  Although I wish for much more about her growing up years and her family stories, I learned some interesting things about Aunt Viola, one of which is that she was on the board of the Greensboro Science Museum (a fun place to visit) and that she and her husband donated plants to the Bog Garden (we walked there a couple times a few years ago.)  She was an interesting lady who was just shy of 99 years old when she died in 2004.  

The Wish by Heather Morris -- Inspired by her years working as a social worker at a hospital, this book features Alex who is asked to create something unique for a dying fifteen year old girl, Jesse, who has leukemia. There he meets Kelly the social worker as well as others who keep Jesse company at the hospital. 

Upward Bound by Woody Brown -- I saw this in the new books section of the library, and was intrigued by the author being someone who is non speaking and autistic. This story features chapters written from the perspectives of clients like Walter who is bright and learning yet he's not able to speak as one would wish someone could speak in the "normal" world. It also features other people such as the staff and observers of these people associated with Upward Bound, an adult-daycare for those with intellectual disabilities. Really a good make-me-think book that challenges how I can be better around people who don't see the world the same way I do.  A quick read with a challenging message! 

Love Letters to a Serial Killer by Tasha Coryell -- Hannah is quite the lady. She works for a nonprofit and wonders why she is denied promotions. She dates, but no man wants her after a while. She finds community on a forum after she reads about four women who were found dead in a ravine in Georgia. Looking for answers, she starts writing to William, the man in jail accused of killing these women. Ehhh. 

The Lies We Trade In by Kristine Delano -- Meredith works in retirement portfolios and other such Wall Street things that I don't completely understand.  The author finds interest in these financial topics since she worked in that field. I, on the other hand, didn't find this book all that great, but I did keep reading it thinking I could learn something.  It wasn't all bad just stock trading and such is not my thing. 

The GhostWriter by Julie Clark -- Fifty years ago - when he was 16 -  Vince's siblings died from knife wounds, and there was talk among the community that he was to blame. His daughter Olivia is a ghostwriter looking for her next project.  Work has been hard to come by since she ranted on social media about a famous author, got sued, and, well, who wants to touch someone so tainted?  When her agent contacts her about a horror writer who wants her to ghostwrite for him, she's shocked when she finds out it's her father who wants to talk about what really happened fifty years ago. Pretty good story. 

Blunt Instrument by Amy Bloom -- I almost gave up on this book after Dell aka Della or Dellarobbia (yikes!), the professor-turned-private investigator, was introduced to several faculty members, and I was having trouble keeping all the names and facts straight. Didn't help that I read that section as I was lying on my couch fighting sleep. Also, Dell does a few things that made me say, "what?", but overall she was a pretty likeable character hired to find out what happened to Professor Oliver Bullfinch. I think this might become a series so I'll decide later if I want to read more mysteries featuring Dell. 

The Author Weekend by Laura Zipman -- Faye is a sixtyish author who reluctantly decides to have a weekend with her fans. Her rival Abby holds these weekends regularly in Colorado with a few hundred of her devoted followers. Faye doesn't really like people that much, thus the reluctance, but she wants to keep selling books so she needs her fans to be excited about her. 

The Windsor Affair by Melanie Benjamin -- A pretty fun way- novel form -  to learn more about Wallis Simpson, and the Kings and Queens of England around that time in history. 

Mad Mabel by Sally Hepworth -- Elsie lives in a quiet cul de sac where she deals with her neighbors. There's the little girl Persephone who insists on visiting despite Mabel not caring for children. There's Ishaam with his annoying, yapping dog.  Then there is the day Persephone wants to interview "an old person" for school, and Mabel decides to check on her neighbor. Anyway...that all sounds confusing and whatever, but this was a good story about friends and neighbors, and how annoying little neighbors can make your heart happy - among other things. 

Five by Ilona Bannister -- From the getgo you know someone is going to die by train. It was there, I nearly put this book down because that first bit was too..something. But I kept reading and ended up liking this pretty well. And the author's acknowledgement at the very end (pg. 228) about neurodivergent kids and their parents...I loved that! 

Dissection of a Murder by Jo Murray -- Pretty good mystery-type book. I like that I learned something about solicitors and barristers in the English and Welsh justice system. Did you know that even if a woman has legally changed her name to her husband's last name, that they address her by her maiden name in court? For instance the main character is Leila Kesler, but professionally she is Miss Reynolds (see pg. 54.)  I'm assuming this is correct because the author is a former barrister. Anyway, I also like that they call their opposition their "learned friend."  As in the defense - in this case Lelia - referred to the prosecutor as her "learned friend" and he did the same to her.  In this case Leila is trying to get Jack off his murder charge, but she's up against an experienced prosecutor with the King's Court. He was her pupil master (now called pupil supervisor) once upon a time, and then...he became more. 

July Books

 The Forgotten Midwife by Laura Anthony -- When Riley discovers a birth certificate in her beloved grandmother's closet, she travels to Ireland for answers. Meanwhile the readers discover Margaret, the second daughter, who had plans to marry before her father gave her to the convent in order to become a nun. There Margaret wonders why her family never writes as she learns to be satisfied in this new life. Interesting story! 

A Cruise to Die For by Heather Graham -- The good news is that this author has MANY many books I've never read, most parts of serieses, in case I want to read more from her. The bad news is that this book was just OK. Not terrible, but the cutesy dialog "As you wish" just got a bit too much for me at times. Two special agents are partnered together going undercover on a cruise ship that features classes for those who want to learn more about furthering their presence online - or just being safer online. Wes and Chloe had never met, but they partner well.  This was an easy read between watching World Cup matches and dealing with an intensely itchy ankle and foot as I got stung by a couple of yellowjackets on the morning of July 1. Seriously, itching could be a form of torture.

Anatomy of an Alibi by Ashley Elston -- Camille needs an alibi so she can gather information so she has Aubrey take her car and phone, and dress as Camille in case Camille's husband tracks her. But then Benjamin is found dead in his home office, and Hank is seeking what happened to his law partner while trying to defend his wife and himself. Did you follow all that?  Quick, easy read. 

My Sister Marilyn by Berniece Baker Miracle -- Even though I've never been much of a fan of her, last month I read a novel about Marilyn Monroe. The book got me a bit interested in her life so I decided to check out this story. It took a bit to get into due to all the names and the way it was written, but once I got those sorted out, I enjoyed hearing memories from Norma Jeane's older sister and her niece, Mona Rae Miracle.

The Exes by Leodora Darlington -- Natalie and her therapist Dimple explore Natalie's violent tendencies and past acts of violence against three former boyfriends. Meanwhile Natalie and her husband James deal with James' brother's blackmail. 

The Secret Lives of Murderers' Wives by Elizabeth Arnott -- Elsie, Beverley, and Margot are the wives of murderers who become friends after a time. When they find out women are being killed, they decide to see if they can solve the mystery of who is committing these crimes! 

It's Not Her by Mary Kubica -- Courtney's family is on a trip to a resort in Wisconsin. Resort is more like rustic cabins along a beautiful lake. Her niece Reese hates being away from her friends for two weeks at a time when she's already struggling to fit in with her peers. When a horrible thing happens to Courtney's brother and sister in law (who happens to be her best friend), she tries to solve the mystery.  Although this isn't a pleasant book, it was a "good" thriller/mystery to me. 

The Girls Trip by Ally Condie -- Hope, Caro, and Ash met on an online book club during the pandemic, and have continued their friendship with a plan to meet up. Hope proposes a sudden trip where they tell no one where they are.  Each of the ladies has a secret. A quick, easy read. 

The Lost Story of Via Belle by Melanie Dobson -- I liked this more than I anticipated. It was inspired by Grace Livingston Hill, someone I remember my mom reading or at least talking about when I was little. Olivia is an author struggling for a new story. When she attends a university panel as a guest, she meets Professor Simon Farrow with whom she enjoys discussing her projects. Meanwhile in more modern times, Harper is looking for her own story - one to produce as a film. 

Small World by Laura Zigman -- After Lydia's divorce, she moves into her younger sister Joyce's apartment where they live together for nearly a year before they get new neighbors upstairs. How will that couple impact Lydia and Joyce's lives?  Both women deal with issues from growing up in a family where they lost their middle sister who born with a birth defect. Pretty good.

Ghosted by Rosie Walsh -- Sarah met Eddie as she was remembering the accident that changed everything. They hit it off, spent an amazing week together, and then she left his house knowing he had to meet a friend for a planned holiday in Spain. He promised to let her know he made it safely, but she didn't hear from him.  She was supposed to pick him up from the airport after his trip, but he never sent the details. She's convinced something happened to him - surely he didn't ghost her. 

The Unwedding by Ally Condie -- Ellery and her husband booked a lovely vacation in order to celebrate their twentieth wedding anniversary, but they split up just before that day arrived so Ellery went on the trip alone.  (She didn't want HIM taking his new girlfriend after all.)  At the resort, she befriends Ravi and Nina as well as Olivia, who is getting married at the resort that same week. Guests are stunned when Olivia's mom informs everyone that Ben called off the wedding so they could have the food... no need for it to go to waste. Also, there's some murder, a storm, and no one can get off the property! 

The Ending Writes Itself by Evelyn Clarke -- When a best-selling author dies just before he finishes the last book in his amazing series, his agent and publisher get creative. Six midlist authors are invited to Arthur Fletch's private island in Scotland. There they sign NDAs and are tasked with writing the ending to Arthur's final book. The one who has the best ending, wins some things worth killing for (apparently.) 

The Push by Ashley Audrain -- Blythe watches her former husband, his new wife and their baby. She sees her daughter, Violet, who lives with them.  And she tells her side of the story. Although it's rather sad, I enjoyed this one!  And I feel like I read it before, but I didn't see it on my blog, so...?

Separation Anxiety by Laura Zigman -- Judy is fifty years old, dealing with a teenaged son who seems embarrassed by her at times, a husband who is often anxious, and a dear friend who is dying from cancer. Plus, her job isn't as fulfilling after her writing career kind of flopped after she wrote a popular book years ago. Pretty cute story. 

A Present Peace by Bill Crowder -- This is a little devotional book that was in Andrew's mom's stuff, and I decided to read one or two most days. It's 90 "our daily bread reflections for embracing God's truth through hard times." 

Wait for Me by Amy Jo Burns -- Marijohn is convinced that her mother is the famous folk singer Elle Harlow who rose to fame and then disappeared nearly twenty years ago. She was found by the gas station attendant just as Elle drove off, and she was left with a battered mandolin. Years later, she learns Elle's story, and how her friendship with Josie and Weston impacted her career.  I didn't like this much at first, but it grew on me before becoming a bit too long. Still, it was decent. 

Itchy Boots Season 8: Kyrgyzstan, China, Mongolia, the Netherlands, Bali, and back to Mongolia

 It's been awhile since I updated the blog on Noraly's travels. Here is more as Season 8 - her trip to Japan - continues.  

December 17, 21, 24, 29, and 31

We watched episodes 103-107 which took place in Kyrgyzstan 

I enjoyed seeing the children at a couple homestays. Noraly rode a donkey with a young teen, and then took selfies with some of the young folks.  Bizarrely, the gas in her motorcycle started boiling, and she shared lovely drone shots (eps. 104)

2026

January 4, 10, 14, 15, 18, 21, 26, and 28

We watched episodes 108-115 which took place in Kyrgyzstan and China

I loved the yurt festival where locals competed in things like building yurts and  where they participated in games and acrobatics on horseback (eps. 108). In China, Noraly met up with Bing who was her guide through the Uyghur region. In that country, you have to show an identity card in order to buy gas, so Noraly hired Bing to take her through part of the country. He was great!  As seen in numerous comments on her YouTube and other social media channels,  many folks enjoyed the learning experiences and knowledge Bing brought to those episodes. Though some hotels were off-limits to tourists, Noraly was often amazed at the fascinating hotels she stayed at  (like the one where a robot brought her food delivery (eps. 115)).

February 2. 5, 10, 12, 15, 19, 22, and 25

We watched episodes 116-123 which took place in China

Some interesting sights like grape tunnels - grapes grown not for wine, but raisins!  Also, she said Chinese folks didn't eat a lot of sweets, and she had red-bean ice cream. Bing told her about Mandarin tones which I found interesting concerning the language (eps. 122) and also about some of the Chinese characters (eps. 123)

March 2, 8, 15, 22, and 29

We watched episodes 124-128 which took place in China and Mongolia 

Bing's wife's family lived in an area they were passing through, and they invited Bing and Noraly to join them for a meal and fellowship which was a fun episode (124). Bing told her about the dragon culture and later the two of them sang some karaoke. Bing took her near the border with Mongolia where they said goodbye. Noraly was on her own again with some tough, windy sandstorms soon greeting her there. 

April 5, 13, 19, and 26

We watched episodes 129-132 which took place in Mongolia

Noraly gets stuck in the mud, she gets a flat tire, sees yaks and an old Buddhist temple; and she gets to the Mongolian capital where she leaves Frankie and flies home. Winter in Mongolia is no joke and it's tough riding through there.  We are seeing videos from several months ago at this point.  She told us videos would only be posted once a week as you can probably tell from the dates when we watched. 

 May 3, 10, and 24

We watched episodes 133-134 plus I watched a Live Chat which took place in the Netherlands, Bali, and back in the Netherlands 

While we were watching videos from Noraly's journey a few months past, she was back home and sometimes in Bali getting her wisdom teeth removed, wearing braces, writing her second book, dog sitting, and getting into shape. She said she was tired of how out-of-shape she was, and she needed to be stronger in order to pick up her motorcycle when she fell.  Later I found out she took about 8 months off from her travels while Mongolia had its long cold winter. One good episode before she resumed her travels in Mongolia, was through the northern part of the Netherlands where she took part in a Hydrox competition. 

June 14, 22, and 28

We watched episodes 135-137 which took place in Mongolia

This month Noraly started posting videos from Mongolia again. We saw that Moritz, the German guy who built Frankie, was there to service the motorcycle again. He was in the country doing his own adventure so he and Noraly rode together for a day.  I enjoyed seeing the capital, children dancing and playing games, and more (eps. 135).  Soon Noraly was off to the Gobi Desert where she met a cute little girl at a place she wanted to stay. Also she befriended the huge dogs that greeted her at various yurt camps. 

July 2, 5, 8, 12, 15, 19, 22, 26, and 29 

We watched episodes 138-146 which took place in Mongolia 

Noraly and Frankie participated in some yak, sheep, goat, and camel roundups with the people she stayed with. Also one family packed her some food and left a sweet note with it. She discovered the corrugated desert had claimed her license plate so she talked about possible ways to get a new one from the Netherlands. She mentioned soon she'd be in China, and had already contacted Bing about joining her. (eps. 141) I enjoyed seeing her ride a camel and when the man sang a Mongolian folk song for her (eps. 145).  Noraly spent some time in a city editing videos and doing logistical things. Her best friend Mandy joined her before riding off on her own motorcycle adventures. 

Tribute to Aunt Bob

My grandmother, born in April 1923, was the oldest of 8 - four boys and four girls. She died 12 years ago this month, and on July 1, 2026, her last living sister joined them in heaven.  One brother is still living in South Carolina. 

Anyway, one of my mom's cousins posted this picture and later the tribute below. I wanted to save both so I thought a blog post would be good. Kip's mom (top left) died in her mid-50s from pancreatic cancer. She - Aunt Bett - was one of the sweetest, most fun great-aunts though she died when I was in my teens. My mom speaks of her with such fondness.  The other sisters - my grandmother (top right), Aunt Bob (bottom left) and Aunt Edith (bottom right) lived to be over 90 years old. 

Posted on Facebook by Kip on July 5, 2026

TRIBUTE TO MY AUNT BOB

My family lived away from Greenville during our formative years and tweens since Daddy was in the Marine Corps. Coming home to see our sweet cuddly, Momzi greeting us with open arms from the porch of Gaymont Farms or Miz Pinson's little stone rental house up Paris Mountain was pure heaven. Momzi was a vision, waving with both hands, small in stature but a giant of affection, standing above her thoughtfully attended flower bed that had a curious collection of pepper plants. Before we could get to the front door, the fragrance of tea boiling, sometimes fried chicken, and the tobacco and burnt matches from Papa's smokes were all comforting as a real welcome package. Chatter, hugs, laughter winded up at the big round table with big legs. Pimento cheese sandwiches were a staple, that countrified hors d'oeuvre splayed against the red and white checked tablecloth. I always seized the metal "highchair" with no arms, a rite and right of the littlest one in house at the time.

Over the next few days, the kinfolk started showing up. Every so often, the sound of wheels against the long dirt driveway would get us moving to the door or the swing out windows with hand cranks that fascinated me. "YON COMES...!!", Momzi or Mama would exclaim with such exuberance that we kids felt like the heroes of all time were descending in our midst. And...they were. The younger uncles and aunts usually were close by, Ronnie and Mary Dan, Sam and Ann, and Dick and Jean. Later, we would see Jack the oldest boy, born between the four sisters, and Aunt Myrtle. Elegant Aunt Edith and easy going Uncle Arthur were always on time. I have memories of them bringing in Kentucky Fried Chicken from the Cedar Lane location with little balloons that one attached to a piece of cardboard shaped like a chicken foot. This was when KFC was the best and as a kid, I thought Aunt Edith was rich, KFC on demand, and especially since she shopped at the A&P. Daddy said that place was too expensive for our family groceries.

The Truaxes, Aunt Mary, Uncle Dan, and their four children were in Africa during the 50's and early to mid 60's. They moved back to Greenville SC a few years before we did. They were exotic. Except for Artie, they were all dark haired, dark eyed. Jolly Uncle Dan was a special character of mirth and goodness. His strong accent, I had decided, was a fusion of British, English, and Chinese from his years in Africa and his upbringing in China as the child of missionaries. The kids had a pronounced accent too. Sharon, the only daughter was, and still is, a beauty, inside and out. We would get to know them after we moved to SC permanently and make our connection and affection for each other also.

Then there were the Turners, Aunt Bob and Uncle Russell and their six kids. Mama and all of her sisters were alike in many ways. Bob and Bett were more like twins, three years apart and eventually 11 kids between them. Singing a duet of "Knothole" or just interacting was mesmerizing. The older cousins of both families were near in age so our bond was more like siblings than cousins. All of our cousins would find that to be true throughout the subsequent years of our upbringing. Uncle Jack's kids were in our age group, Donna being the eldest of the 27 cousins. and more like a big sister to all of us. She still is.

When Daddy had orders to go overseas in 1967, he moved us to SC to be near this huge family. The Truaxes were home for good and the Powells joined their church and went to school with them. Occasionally the whole family would visit together at the church of one of the branches. Tabernacle Baptist Greenville, Faith Baptist Simpsonville, Victory Chapel Baptist Conestee and soon Truth Missionary Baptist Woodside where Uncle Sammy had just started a pastorate. Coffee, Pepsi, and food followed each service at the home of various hostesses, all equally grand and accommodating. I just bought a percolator because of my memory of Aunt Ann's perfect coffee that filled the house with the best aroma. That was the first thing one noticed when walking into her kitchen,. Oh the noise and revelry. Sometimes the little ruffians would duke it out. The parents always blamed their own children instead of somebody else's as a mechanism for peace. I guess it worked but there would always be a lot of, "But Mama, I didn't do anything..." This was shut down quickly, little fires put out, detente at its best, wielded by the power and wisdom of a Kay woman.

In the summer of 1968 Aunt Bob and Uncle Russell were accepted as missionaries by the Baptist International Missions Board (BIMI). Daddy came home that fall, and it seemed that the whole family was finally in one place. The Turners announced that they would be leaving for the mission field soon after. In February 1969, they left Greenville for Cayman Brac Island and the West Indies. It might as well have been Timbuktu. In that past year and a half, the Turners and Powells were as one. Shayne and Rusty, Erik and Edie (now Edi), Kip and Kim. Chlo Ann was the conscience of the group and moved with stealth and humility among us. Phillip and Mary Rose were a good deal younger. They were novelties to us, very cute and whom we cajoled but they couldn't run with us big dogs. That family's exit from this idyllic and short lived time was the first of many goodbyes and separations in our family, other than those that my immediate family had already experienced as a military family. I savored letters from these cousins who were faithful to write. I felt abandoned by the prospect that I would never see them again. In truth, we never really saw each other for long periods again, but the bond surely has been unbreakable, undeniable, and uncanny. Still to this day, in our 60's and 70's we correspond and it seems as if we are still on Piggy Rd Mauldin at the Turner farm, at the Little Raskals Clubhouse, or pulling an all nighter with the whole extended family around the permanent BBQ pit. The last time we all were together was the Turner's final BBQ. The cousins were up in the house listening to Edi playing the guitar and accordion, self taught. The window was open and we heard the whole family singing down at the pit, with Daddy playing. We promptly joined this throng of strong people with somewhat heavy hearts. I don't remember the songs that were sung, but I know that we always had Sharon Truax sing the verses of "I Don't Know About Tomorrow", as we all joined on the chorus. Different "groups" would sing. It's sweet that I remember that reunion but not the sadness of the parting. I recall times when we would be away from the adults at a family dinner and the aunts and uncles would call for a command performance by the Turners, Truaxes, Powells, et al. Often we would throw each other under the bus..." Get them to sing. I have a sore throat". Oh to have that opportunity now.

This tribute and recollection is history of Aunt Bob's godly parenting, selfless, and consistent. None of our elders were perfect but raised us by example, with humility, long suffering, and without retreat. We cousins have had many discussions about mistakes made by our parents and by us children, the seemingly unfair rules/"standards" that were to satisfy man or institution sometimes impeding the expression of our gifts and exiling us to periods of spiritual and creative stagnation. No one and certainly no family, especially one of this size, escapes the fallout of family dynamics and religion. However, through these seven decades of cousin-ry, the talk has been overwhelmingly about the joy, the laughter, the closeness, our admiration and adoration of our aunts and uncles. We all have failed someone in the family, some more than others, some more often than not. In the end, to be able to find no hypocrisy in an aunt or mama like Aunt Bob, is more than enough. That kind of legacy covers a multitude of life happenings, things we call mistakes or imperfect, with absolution. "Blessed are the pure in heart" immediately comes to my heart and mind. Aunt Bob was that!

It was hard to look at Aunt Bob after Mama died. They were so much alike. It was painful. She acknowledged that one time with her characteristic sweetness, discernment, humility, and love. But I was always so glad of heart. I have recounted the thrill of seeing her extraordinarily angelic, beaming, glowing, dancing, eyes, and joyful smile. She never wavered. She and her sisters had a contemplative beauty that made one wonder, what are they thinking? No doubt, in these last few years, she was "Thinkin "bout home..." Knowing her life, it is a joy and comfort to believe without a doubt that as she laid her head down Tuesday night her thoughts were of Home, her family, her Jesus. To just go to sleep and wake in God's heaven without suffering is the greatest and ultimate blessing. What a way to cross the finish line!!I know first hand, that my Mama prayed constantly. I know this of Aunt Bob too. I spoke to her on the phone a few years ago, and the way she said, "KEEUPP" just brings tears to me now. She reminded me that she prayed for me everyday, as she did for all of us, many photos displayed for her to see and make her prayers personal. Oh who will pray for us now?

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Edited to add these pictures of my mom in the hospital room in Paris, France, in March 1951. See my comment to Myrna below for context. 

Same picture ... just one is zoomed in order to see their faces a bit better. :)